There are many reasons why you may not want to get treatment.
- You may not trust therapists or
psychologists.
- You may worry about money. Even if you have
insurance, it doesn't always cover mental health care.
- You may
feel that asking for treatment is a sign of weakness.
- You may
think you will get better if enough time passes.
- You may worry
that if people find out it could hurt your career.
But you need to get treatment. Treatment can work.
Here are some reasons people don't seek treatment and what you can do
about them.
"It's hard to schedule and find time for an
appointment." "I can't get there."
- Therapists, clinics, and hospitals may offer
after-hours appointments or weekend hours.
- Look at your schedule
and find when it would be easiest for you to see a doctor or counselor. Request
this time when you call. You may have to wait a few days, but if that's the
only time you can do it, it's worth the wait.
- When you call for an
appointment, explain your situation. Most doctors will try to find a time that
works for both of you.
- Ask a friend to help you get there, or
check local bus schedules.
"See a shrink? I'm not crazy." "People will think I'm
weak." "What will my family and friends think?"
- You are looking for help so you will feel better.
It takes strength and courage to seek help from others.
- Mental
health problems are real and can affect your physical health. They are often
caused by chemicals in the brain or by heredity-they are not character
flaws.
- You can get better with the right kind of treatment.
Treatment includes medicine, counseling, self-care, or a combination of these.
The kind of treatment you have will depend on how severe your symptoms
are.
"Someone might get into my medical records and see
this."
Doctors, counselors, hospitals, and clinics take privacy seriously.
They won't share your records with anyone not involved in your treatment. If
you have questions about your privacy, ask the doctor about it when calling for
an appointment.
"I've tried to talk to people. They just don't get it
and don't care."
It may be hard for some people to understand or relate to your
experiences. But other people who have experienced the same type of events can
understand. Consider finding a group of people who have had similar
experiences.
"I can't afford it."
- Many towns and cities have resources that may be
able to help you. Call your local social services department or welfare office
to find out.
- If you have insurance, check your policy. Mental
health benefits often are covered through a separate company.
- Check to see if your state has a mental health parity law. Your
employer may be required to provide mental health insurance.
- Look
into the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA). You may be able to use it to take
time off for doctor visits.
- Ask your doctor for help. He or she
may be able to find free or low-cost medicine or counseling.
- Check
Medicaid if you have a low income, or Medicare if you are 65 or older. These
programs may be able to help you.